I'd rather stay segregated.

Yeah, and then we as black people want to always blame the white race for so much hatred....look at yourself!!  Your mentality is screwed up....just because the black men you have came across have passed you up for white women you are saying something like this!  Lady get real....have it ever occurred to you that those men just have preferences to date outside their race!  There are plenty of  black men who love black women and are with black women everyday!!  Get over it!!  No offense.

I'm out of the dating game. To protect myself i'm out, i don't want that fear in my life anymore. Maybe bm are better off anyway with other races for the hate i see and feel very deeply coming from some brothers is more then i can take. Tiny

blacktiny:

Sweetie, I can almost feel your pain, from reading your posts. I'm sorry that you have had such bad experiences being rejected by Black Men. However, I do not think the answer is for you to stop dating Black Men all together.

You can not allow your experiences with these men, to turn you against all Black Men as a whole. Not one of the men, you dated in the past, is worth you not finding love and happiness someday.

blacktiny, remeber this, just because were Black does not mean, Black Men inherently belong to us, and vice versa. It sounds as if, your holding them to a standard that isn't realistic. You have no control over how someone chooses to live their life. But you have all the control over how you choose to live yours.

I say this in the most sincerest and caring way .................... get off your pitty pot, and start living your life. Having a Black Man in your life is not the be all and end all. You may not be interested in this, but maybe you need to expand your dating pool of men. Meaning instead of looking for a good Black Man, try looking for a good man.

I'm taking to heart what your saying but as it is with bm taking their options for women of other races and by passing us that love them, i'm taking no more abuse. I don't hate bm, but want nothing to do with them dating wise. They require so much and give so little. Leave baby girl and me behind and clowning with ww. Maybe when all the stuff with my health passes men of other races might be an option. Thanks for the kind words. Tiny

Tiny, you sound as if, you have such a gentle and kind soul. I will pray that you will recover from your health problems, and that you will find love and happiness soon. Be STRONG.

May God Bless You, *SMILE*

<just because the black men you have came across have passed you up for white women you are saying something like this!  Lady get real....have it ever occurred to you that those men just have preferences to date >

Actually they are screwed up for having a preference for only dating outside their race. Every other race overwhelmingly date INSIDE their own race EXCEPT for black men.  Anthropologically and biologically humans prefer others who are LIKE them....EXCEPT for black men.  Stop making excuses for your self-hate.

Now tell us why the majority of these white women will ONLY date RICH or FAMOUS black men?  True Love, huh?  Brothers look much better to white women with a large bank account.

I don't hate bm, but want nothing to do with them dating wise. They require so much and give so little. Leave baby girl and me behind and clowning with ww. Maybe when all the stuff with my health passes men of other races might be an option. Thanks for the kind words. Tiny

DON'T DO IT!!!!...DON'T LISTEN TO THESE SELLOUTS!!!!.......YOU ARE A STRONG BLACK WOMAN.....WHO MET SOME WEAK BM'S???..... BUT, YOU HAVEN'T MET "EVERY" BLACK MAN???