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Hair FAQ - Stuck at Shoulder Length!

Posted Oct 27th 2008 9:35PM by Gennifer Miller
Filed under: Hair Apparent, Life and Style

Q: No matter what i do, I can not seem to grow my hair past shoulder length. My hair seems to be growing but it always breaks off at the same point. Please help!

A. I had this same problem a few years ago. My hair seemed to be growing but I could not make it past shoulder length. I eventually realized that I was merely not retaining length. My ends were constantly rubbing up against my sweaters, coats and collars. The friction from this constant contact caused my ends to become dry and break off in the same exact spots.

What really helped me was 1) pinning my hair up more often in buns, twists and updos and 2) wearing my hair in curly styles. The updos helped protect my ends from friction and the curly styles helped shorten my hair so the ends would not graze my shoulders. These styles may help you retain more length and grow your hair past shoulder length. Also, try to moisturize your ends each night with a strengthening moisturizer like ORS Carrot oil to keep them hydrated and strong.
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1. Great tips, I'll be sure to pass them along!

Sheena at 12:16AM on Oct 28th 2008

2. i think this is a good article

ardhindie at 6:54AM on Oct 28th 2008

3. why didn't i think of this? it makes perfect sense!
thx!!!!

lena at 1:03PM on Oct 29th 2008

4. Good advice because there are tons of ways to style up shoulder length hair. http://www.cheesecake-recipes.org/ shows some ways to style the ends and others. If you want to grow your hair further, try a hair vitamin product and keep your hair very well moisturized while growing it out.

cindy at 3:17PM on Oct 29th 2008

5. I still believe your hair is only meant to grow to a predetermined length dictated by your genes.

Tiffany at 2:54PM on Oct 30th 2008

6. my hair also have problem, but my hair has a litle different with this case. But the tips so helpful.
thanks

Busby SEO Test at 1:48PM on Nov 1st 2008

7. This is true-right now my hair has grown past my shoulders, BUT I am very much aware of this same problem occuring with me. Don't wear clothes that are especially rough- another thing to think about- when you ride in your car, pull your hair up or put it in the front across your neck- leaning back on your hair against the car seat can also cause breakage-especially those seats with rough-like material covering them. Leather seats are your friend:)

Lisa at 10:13PM on Nov 2nd 2008

8. Help!! My hair will not grow!! It's stuck at the same length :-(. I would love to have beautiful shiny hair. Any advice? I use the Cream of Nature box perm which makes my hair soft but it never seems to get any longer...

Michelle at 4:33PM on Nov 9th 2008

9. Buy the book "Black Hair Is"... The Complete Hair Care Guide for Today's Black Woman by Marilyn Singleton. It has been highly acclaimed by all of the top magazines -- white and black.

Professor33 at 10:23PM on Nov 21st 2008

10. I love wearing weaves because all you have to do is buy the length you want! Lots of women can't grow their hair past a certain point... but you would never know it with a good weave!

Make sure to use Indian hair or virgin hair because it will be the most natural. Try IndianHairCompany.com because I know they are very reputable and their hair is the best you can buy.

Hair Diva at 4:15PM on Jan 3rd 2009

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