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Frankly Speaking: Terrence Howard Sings About Stalking His Ex-wife

Posted Aug 25th 2008 2:00PM by Jawn Murray
Filed under: BV Buzz

By Jawn Murray, BlackVoices.comTerrence Howard

"I wrote that song as a stalker. It was raining, and I was sitting there in front of the house, watching her come home from a date after we were divorced. I was imagining what she did on this date, and watching her giving him a kiss. I went home and wrote this song."

– Oscar nominee Terrence Howard relived the time he spied on his ex-wife Lori McCommas in a 'New York Times' interview about his forthcoming album, 'Shine Through It.'

The experience is also captured in a song on the CD called, 'No. 1 Fan,' which explores the stalking incident after his 14 year marriage ended.

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Photo: See Terrence Howard's CD cover here.

Terrence Howard CD Cover

Black Music Notes June 26

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    Just last year super-producer Swizz Beatz was hospitalized for exhaustion, and by the looks of it hasn't slowed him down a bit. The hip-hop hit-maker has been in the studio crafting hits for Jay-Z, G-Unit, Ludacris, T.I. , Alicia Keys, and surprisingly the icon himself Michael Jackson. The Bronx native (legally known as Kasseem Dean) recently revealed his plans to not only produce some music for the King of Pop, but produce his tour as well. "I'm probably gonna be producing his tour and everything," he explained to 'MTV.' "I'm designing planes for Gulf Stream and everything. They called me. I'm around different people. I'm around billionaires. I'm around people like that." This October Swizz Beatz plans to release his new studio opus entitled, 'Life After the Party.'

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    Crafting hit music for The Black Eyed Peas and Justin Timberlake can only inspire an artist/producer such as Will.I.Am (born William James Adams Jr.)to go beyond the music industry. Fans can expect to see the Black Eyed Peas front-man in the forthcoming X-Men movie, 'X-Men Origins: Wolverine,' playing a role opposite of Hugh Jackman. Will.I.Am recently revealed to 'MTV News' that the character he'll be playing is a teleporter by the name of John Wraith. In addition to 'X-Men,' the producer also landed a role in the 'Madagascar' sequel. "With 'Madagascar 2,' I think there has to be an angel or something or my grandma's prayers guiding that," he says. "It's pretty, pretty dope. And I'm grateful and happy about it all." 'X-Men Origins: Wolverine' is expected to hit theaters in May 2009.

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    6/26/08: Mashonda
    After releasing her debut album 'January Joy' internationally, Mashonda returns with two new singles 'All or Nothing' and 'No Panties' from her forthcoming untitled album. The Harlem reared singer describes her first single 'No Panties' as being "all about giving your man whatever he desires; no limits." In addition to her new music hitting the radio airwaves, the ex Mrs. Swizz Beatz (real name: Mashonda Tifrere-Dean) is the creative director and model for an upcoming coffee table book entitled, 'Alter Ego Revealed.' Mashonda's new album is set to drop in early next year.

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    6/26/08: Lauryn Hill/Kanye West
    'Entertainment Weekly' magazine recently unveiled its 'New Classics' list in which they ranked the best in music, movies, TV shows, and books from over the past 25 years. Lauryn Hill's mega-selling solo debut 'The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill' landed at number two slot behind Prince's timeless classic 'Purple Rain,' which held down the top spot. Other artist that made the list included Kanye West (No. 4), Jay-Z (No. 7), Outkast (No. 12), Beyonce (No. 19), Mariah Carey (No. 21), Nas (No. 28), and The Notorious B.I.G (No. 40), among many others.

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1. I find that writing songs based on real life experiences has far more originality than artists, taking songs from others to make it their own.

Patricia at 9:01PM on Aug 26th 2008

2. Black Voices? Okay.... I am not racist.... but Lord help us if a white person came out with "white Voices" Every black rights organization would freak out until it was removed. Want equality!?!?!? So why the heck are we still dividing and identifying a site by race... a public site! ?

wendy at 9:03PM on Aug 26th 2008

3. Terence Howard is one of my favorite actors, along with Denzel, Morgan Freeman and Clint Eastwood.
It is very brave of Terence to go public with his stalking his ex-wife issue. We are all human and somtimes a bit obessive!!

jim at 9:09PM on Aug 26th 2008

4. Funny; when a guy stalks the ex wife or ex girlfriend, this is alright, yet, if the ex wife stalked the ex hubby/boyfriend, she would be arrested. Why can't the husbands, even if they're the ones that had adulterous affairs, inflicted violent and the whole realm of abuse, yer, the ex wife is their possesion, not allowed a life, when the man gets on with his life, he's still watching the ex wife. This is good of Terrence Howard to admit, and hopefully expressing his feelings in a song will help him put closure on this relationship and go onto a much more positive life.

KG at 9:14PM on Aug 26th 2008

5. Wendy, you might have a point. I look at it this way. Do you ever go to any of the more general AOL blogs? No one can write a story about any black person without a million racist comments, N word, and all kinds of other stuff. I mean it could be someone who just won a Gold Medal or a very successful tslented person who just died and a million AOL scumbags will have something racist to say. I'm not saying blogs/news should be segregated- but I don't mind reading somewhere about talented/famous black people where not every comment is going to be from a white bigot troll who sits at home all day on his couch blaming minorities for his problems and spewing racist bs.

John C at 9:17PM on Aug 26th 2008

6. hes hot he can stalk me anytime lol

terri at 9:25PM on Aug 26th 2008

7. Most of the racist crap you get on line is from kids or from people that are just plain ignorant. But I must agree with Wendy... remember when the Colts played the Bears in Super Bowl.. you heard more about the 2 black coaches than you did the game. Black Expo is another.. why not White Expo? I am not racist.. I am just sick of the "black thing" being crammed down my throat in every media outlet there is. Heck.. Obama is a Muslim.. and the press seems to be alright with that. But let a man run who made a racist remark 20 years ago.. and they would ruin his career.

Timothy A at 9:41PM on Aug 26th 2008

8. Terence Howard has TRUE talent.At least he made a song about something "real" that took actual thought.So what if it really happened, he is man enough to admit it. My point being, he put thought & heart into it and it wasn't about a damn "Lollipop" or "Crankin' anything. You never Know music might be making a comeback from it's shame.

Cindy Payne at 9:57PM on Aug 26th 2008

9. Never heard of him.

Marcus at 9:58PM on Aug 26th 2008

10. I agree with you John. I get tired of all the racist comments on EVERY stroyline that comes up dealing with blacks (be it good or bad), ESPECIALLY you Wendy, almost everything out there is already geared toward whites anyway. Just because it doesn't say "White Voices" doesn't mean that it isn't biased AGAINST BLACKS. But I suspect you already know this and just want to stir up trouble. Get a grip and face reality.

Mae at 10:03PM on Aug 26th 2008

11. Well, I'm a 60 yr old white woman. Sorry to intrude...But I think Terence Howard is a really good actor. Quiet, interesting qualities. I don't think for a minute he was doing anything creepy. I think he just must have missed her terribly. 14 years is a long time to be with someone and then be without them.

Pam at 10:04PM on Aug 26th 2008

12. I thought this was about Terence Howard. Who started this stuff?

Pam at 10:11PM on Aug 26th 2008

13. Gee thanks Wendy. Now all of your creepy, white trash, hate loving, and let's not forget- ignorant friends(Dyfanno 1) have joined your conversation. This story is about Terrence Howard NOT about RACE. But I guess when HATE is all you sleep, eat and breathe then what else can we expect. So I say to you and Danny Boy, WELCOME RACISTS!!

Mae at 10:11PM on Aug 26th 2008

14. Isn't it kind of overstating what he was doing calling it stalking just because he watched her come home from a date? Don't you have to be a pest or something to be a stalker? Are we just trying to sell something here? I think he's a great actor but have never heard him sing that I know of.

hal hobbs at 10:21PM on Aug 26th 2008

15. Dyfanno1: If you had a decent thought,a good thought maybe someone would listen to you, or give you a second thought. Whether you are black white mexican jewish german africian etc. We all have issues. Not every issue leads to property being destroyed, or being trashed.But you must be part of that elitist group,who feels that if ain't white it ain't right. it never . have you ever been harassed, followed pulled over because of the color of your skin. What about having your land taken over by the white man, and having no say. If you want to get real the only real american is an native american. How many years can you trace your family tree. All the man said was that he watched her out side her house. I f you really loved some one and they left you what would you do???

leah kirkland at 10:36PM on Aug 26th 2008

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