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Cosby's Daughter Not Down With Real Black Folks

Posted Aug 14th 2008 5:00PM by Carmen Dixon
Filed under: BlackSpin, Crazy Talk

Bill Cosby's daughter Evin has given an interview where she talks about how she only relates to rich people, with a subtext of why she does not relate to black people.

The occasion for this interview is the opening of her new boutique PB & Caviar, in New York's chic Tribeca neighborhood. It is the oddest public relations, marketing tactic I have ever witnessed.

Here's what she has to say:
"I always went to private schools - Bank Street elementary, Columbia Prep - so I was surrounded by people like me. Not so much African-American, but privileged. I don't really have a connection to other people who didn't have my lifestyle. But my dad is very into helping people from his own community in Philadelphia."
What the hell???

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    "I always went to private schools - Bank Street elementary, Columbia Prep - so I was surrounded by people like me. Not so much African-American, but privileged. I don't really have a connection to other people who didn't have my lifestyle. But my dad is very into helping people from his own community in Philadelphia." -- Bill Cosby's daughter Evin tells Media Take Out.

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And she doesn't stop there:

My own people used to say to me, 'You speak like a white woman,'" said the youngest daughter of Bill and Camille Cosby at her chic new boutique, PB & Caviar, in Tribeca.

What does that even mean, anyway? Everyone has their way of speaking and living their life. No one should be judging and assuming that because I'm black, I have to speak in that hip-hop way. That's something I prefer not to do.
And that's her choice.

But it galls me that certain black people drone on and on about how some black folks teased them in school about "talking white." It happened to me. Frankly, I was repeatedly beaten in grade school because of it. But, I was also called a "n*gg*r" and had my nose broken by a white racist when I was nine. So what? Should I not be able to "relate" to black or white people because of some incidents decades ago? What a ridiculous idea.

How sad it is that Bill Cosby who has spent a lifetime on the forefront of Civil Rights battles has raised a daughter so completely out of touch with the full dynamic of the American "peoplescape." And she's proud of it!
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1. I also went to private schools, made up predominantly of whites, and lived in mostly white neighborhoods, etc... but it was for those reasons that I craved the familiarity of people who looked like me, not the other way around, as it appears to be in her case. My experiences made me want to get to know *my* people - black people - instead of shun them. I won't be making any trips to her store any time soon.

THE OBENSON REPORT at 5:39PM on Aug 14th 2008

2. I went to private schools where I was either one of two blacks or the only black. It didn't mean that I was out of touch with my community or my own identity as an African American. I do think (and hope) that Evin's statement is being misinterpreted because we are only getting bits and pieces of the conversation. We really don't know what this statement was in reference to. So, in all fairness to her, I think we should get the whole story or it should be dropped altogether. I am certain growing up in a home where her family has donated millions to education and the black community that Evin is not out of touch or doesn't have a desire to be in touch with her blackness. She is responding to black america's response to her being a individual formed by her experiences, not the mold some of us think we should all fit into.

This reminds me of Michelle Obama being accused of saying "This is the first time I have been proud to be an American or of America". The media failed to include the word "really" which would have given her statement a different tone. I swear I have a love hate relationship with much of today's media. SMDH!

Charden at 6:20PM on Aug 14th 2008

3. Come on folks, are we that surprised these comments came from Bill Cosby's daughter???? She is out of touch with average black folk. Pray for her, she really DOESN'T know any better. All that private school education and being around privileged people taught her nothing about tact or public relations. Tell your father to hire a publicist to speak for you!

LACI at 6:22PM on Aug 14th 2008

4. I CAN'T BELIEVE WE HAVE PEOPLE WHO DON'T EMBRACE THEIR OWN RACE. WHO IS SHE? A NOBODY I BET BILL HAD TO HAND HER THE MONEY TO OPEN THAT LIL' FUNKY STORE NEVER HAD TO WORK FOR ANYTHING THAT WHY SHE'S TALKING.

sexxydredd at 6:48PM on Aug 14th 2008

5. She hit the nail on the head, the only reason she fit in with that crowd is because of the money and privilege involved with being Bill Cosbys daughter. Evin should never have been interview in the first place, because she has nothing significant to say. Opening up a boutique is nothing new, nor does it take a scholar. But one thing she did prove is her father raised a smart ass fool....

Anna Jean at 8:05PM on Aug 14th 2008

6. Miss Cosby is not talking about race. She is talking about class. Those who are privileged live in a completely different world than those who are not. Her comments do not say that she does not relate to black people. Not all white people are privileged. We do not know what question, statement, or topic she was responding to. The media will try their hardest to make something out of nothing. Hardly anyone in the majority of most African-American communities care about her comments or boutique.

Mrs. RMM at 8:17PM on Aug 14th 2008

7. Don't any BLACK folks shop at PB & Caviar. I work in Tribeca, and will spend my money at Whole foods.
Trying to be something your NOT!! Look in the mirror, your not WHITE even though you want to belong. Your a black women, who has had the privilege to live better than the masses. Why don't you do something uplifting rather than suplly the majority. Look in the mirror, SISTER....

t at 8:39PM on Aug 14th 2008

8. I don't really want to judge Ms. Crosby too harshly because I don't know her and only part of her alleged comments were printed. I understand in part what she has NOT said. In other words, if being Black means that I must not aspire to be fully educated or proficient in the English language and must limit my jargon to 'hip hop' or a diet of daily 'cuss' words than I want no part of Black culture. If being Black means I must reject the music of Beethoven, Brahams and Chopin and limit myself to Michael Jackson, Tupac, Biggie and rap and hip hop artistes, as good as they are, than I reject 'being Black'. If being black means that my sole focus is on 'bling bling', how I look, that my make-up is 'on right' while my inside is hollow, and my thoughts bereft of ideas, than I too, like Ms. Cosby reject 'being Black'. If being Black means I must have no goals for tomorrow, I just exist in the here and now, gang banging, going nowhere fast, having 7 or 8 children for 12 or 13 different men, bring them up in the projects, priding myself as being a single mother, then I too, reject all that is Black.... However, if I am goal focussed, creative, organized, privileged or not, morally sound, rejecting mediocrity, embracing the positives that came out of Slavery and not carrying the past as an albatross around my neck and making silly excuses for my lack of ambition, non-achievement then I'm truly in touch with my black self and embrace all that is BLACK!! This I think is what Ms. Crosby may have meant but did not express. Diane

Diane at 8:40PM on Aug 14th 2008

9. @Diane You're joking right? She said exactly what she meant. How you get all that out of what she said I have no idea.

Not So Fast... at 8:41PM on Aug 14th 2008

10. correction to No. 11, 'than' should read 'then'

diane at 8:46PM on Aug 14th 2008

11. My point precisely, we always have 'no idea/s' Let's get some ideas before we're re-enslaved. Diane

Diane at 8:53PM on Aug 14th 2008

12. Is that the same daughter that was on drugs in a "hip hop" way?

Deborah at 9:40PM on Aug 14th 2008

13. I looked her up because I saw a glimpse of the boutique in the news and I like to support our people when I can...but since she is talking about class, i probably will not have a interest in her or her boutique now since she is such a closed minded person. There a lot of people who grew up in very poor areas and around drug,sex,murders but manage to be able to make something out of them selves and also can associate with anyone regardless of class. Meaning shes very ignorant "her daddy word" if she can only talk to people with money.

leigh at 9:43PM on Aug 14th 2008

14. She is only mirroring the words of Vanessa Williams years ago and Tiger Woods. It must have something to do with their hang outs. Her father has fought for civil rights for years. You can only teach your children so much. When they call her a nigger again she will be surprised. Someone white killed her brother, do you see how mixed up she is? She said she was called a nigger, and punched in the nose and it was no big thing? Doesn't that sound like some of the regular youths today, that say everything is okay, we should stop looking back to the 50-80's. Parents can bring up their children and the child will act as if they werenot in the same houssehold. Love her and all of them. Look at Ms. Vanessa Williams. she had to come back to the place she said she and her family didn't teach her that she belonged.Just pray that she doesn't get hurt. I'm quite sure her father is so hurt that she made a silly statement like that.

Ann Wood at 9:56PM on Aug 14th 2008

15. I can believe she said such a thing. As much work as her father has done for the civil rights and trying to wake up Black America, I know he said to her "why would you say such a thing. She is misguided like Vanessa Williams , was many years ago when she and her family stated that they didn't consider themselves Black back then. These people are confused. Blackness has nothing to do with the color of the skin, or where you grew up. She was small when her father also had to be called a nigger, and she even states herself, so what which shows how out of touch she is. A lot of people her age and a little older are saying it is okay. You can stop talking about the civil rights movement. Until they understand what the fight was about, it will never be okay. The "Thug Life has set us back 100 years, and now we have those who like the whites say "what are you talking about". As long as these attitudes are excepted we are still lost. The fact that jobs and housing still suck as long as they can put on a show and not look in the mirror we as a race of people are lost. Divide and conquer.

Ann Wood at 10:09PM on Aug 14th 2008

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