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How To Buy Her Engagement Ring

Posted Jun 11th 2008 11:00PM by Kiante Young
Filed under: Lifestyle, Style Spotter, Weddings

Boy sees girl. Girl ignores boy. Boy pursues girl. Girl gives into boy after she sees the good in boy. Boy falls in love and so does girl. Boy realizes he wants to marry girl. Now begins the search for that perfect diamond ring.

It has been said that diamonds are a girl's best friend and from my experience, when you give her that bling and ask her that special four-worded question it won't even matter how big the ring is at the time but a few days later as she shows the ring off to her friends, that is when the size of the ring counts.

Before you even think about shopping for a ring you need to learn the 4C's of diamonds:

Clarity, Color, Carat and Cut


1. Clarity
Clarity connotes the quality of diamonds based upon the existence and visual appearance of internal characteristics of a diamond called inclusions, and surface defects called blemishes. Most diamonds have inclusions but that doesn't effect the diamonds' ability to transmit and scatter light but large clouds will as they effect the diamond's performance or structural integrity


2. Color
A perfect diamond is completely transparent with no hue or color. However, in reality almost no diamond is absolutely perfect. The color of a diamond may be affected by chemical impurities and/or structural defects. Depending on the hue and intensity of a diamond's coloration, a diamond's color can either detract from or enhance its value. For example, most white diamonds are cheaper when more yellow hue is detectable, while pink or blue diamonds can be way more expensive.

3. Cut
To many, this is the most important C because even if the diamonds clarity and color isnt top of the line, the quality of the cut can increase the value. A diamond cut involves more or less symmetrical arrangement of angles which together modify the shape and appearance of a diamond. If cut right, these angles will make the rock reflect beautiful rainbow colors every time a light hits it. Diamond cutters analyze shape and size of the crystal, when choosing a cut. Using their skill and natural innovation, they create magic. From marking and cleaving to sawing, bruting and faceting, they turn plain hard rocks into brilliant accessories that illuminate your wardrobe and your life, helping millions of young men tell the world how much they love their girl.

4. Carat
Last but not least, you must consider the weight of the diamond. Don't confuse carat with karet as the k-word refers to the fineness of gold while carat refers to a diamond's weight, not its size or diameter.

Fellas, do your research and make sure you think really hard before you make a purchase. Eventually your woman will take that ring and check the value so don't go cheap. At the same time, don't get yourself into debt. When you go to the jewelry store make sure you use the Jeweler's Loupe (magnifying glass) to examine the stones. No matter what, if she really loves you, what you give her wont matter but your job is to make it matter!

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1. I thought this article was very helpful and gave important facts about diamond rings. The engagement ring above is "BEAUTIFUL"! I pray, that one day I will be married one day.

Ms. Shelly at 10:41AM on Jun 12th 2008

2. I didnt know all of this. Brothers in the hood talk about diamonds and bling bling but really dont know wat they are talking about. Myself included.

David at 12:16PM on Jun 12th 2008

3. I am going to email this here to my man right now! He better read everything line of this too. Its all about the cut of the diamond.

I didnt know karet and carat didnt have the same meaning.

The funny thing is my ex bought me a ring and the first thing I did was I got it appraised. Come to find out it was cheap. Notice I said ex.

Another n***** I was seeing bought me some earrings and i got them checked. They was fake.

Black men please dont buy your girl no fake sh##!!!

Melanie Baxter at 11:48PM on Jun 13th 2008

4. Girl, I know thats right. This fool I was seeing bought me a set of earrings. I showed them to my mama and she said they was fake. My sisters still tease me because of it. When they see him around they call him glass boy.

Fellahs stop buying your women glass. If you gotta buy her small diamonds buy them. But stop buying thats fake shhh.

Listen to your man here.

Kel at 6:33AM on Jun 14th 2008

5. Da bes way fo a man to git you a dimon ring iz to nok of a jewylry sto! jes rob dat mofok wot got it in de case. 5 finga dicsxcount.

MinnesotaBABE at 11:13AM on Jun 14th 2008

6. This just confirmed what I already been checking out.I've been seeing sistas brag about the SIZE of their CHEAP "pretty looking" piece of glass.If you have the dead presidents to get an old english rose cut or cushion cut diamond that won't depreciate over time...hey, go for it.You can pass it down to a daughter,if you dont get your finger cut off first...lol.Those would be my ideal cut ring including clarity and weight.But most of all,LOVE and you cant put a weight,cut, or clarity price on"LOVE".......BUT IF HE GOT IT,LETS GO TO AFRICA AND GET THAT ROCK.HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

ummpeaches at 10:44PM on Jun 20th 2008

7. I was looking for a husband and not a ring. As long as it came from the heart, it could be a piece of tin....for real. Too many women have fallen short of the marriage morals. Love does not have a price tag ladies.

debbie at 1:24PM on Jun 24th 2008

8. When buying diamonds, you can't go to Canal St. and think your buying Tiffany's...lmaooooo...You can be assured of buying diamonds by going to a reputable jewelery store like Tiffany's, Zale's, etc. If you think your getting a steal and your paying less than $500.00, that shit is fugazy......lmaoooo.....

J.Paul Ghetto at 1:25PM on Jun 24th 2008

9. Very informative article, it clarified a lot of things that I didn't know as far cut, clarity, etc. that affected the value of a diamond. Now it's just a matter of getting the money together so I can get a nice one for my girl.

Dion at 1:25PM on Jun 24th 2008

10. Zales? Mall shopping for rocks? You're kidding....

Joey at 3:34PM on Jun 30th 2008

11. HA! the mall is for suckers.

I got a deal online but I got a GIA certificate with it.
You gotta be serious and get your ring checked out - if you buy it without a certificate you get a big rock that aint worth a dime! I got mine at http://www.since1910.com

Omar at 10:02PM on Aug 19th 2008

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