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1. I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THEY BOTH STILL LOVE EACH OTHER AND JUST BECAUSE THE MAN IS MARRIED I STILL BELIEVE HIS HEART IS WITH CHILI.HE DONE THINGS AS WE ALL KNOW THAT DROVE THEM APART BUT LOVE IS LOVE AND IT ALWAYS SHOWS THROUGH.

DEBORAH at 10:05PM on Apr 29th 2008

2. 1. I HONESTLY BELIEVE THAT THEY BOTH STILL LOVE EACH OTHER AND JUST BECAUSE THE MAN IS MARRIED I STILL BELIEVE HIS HEART IS WITH CHILI.HE DONE THINGS AS WE ALL KNOW THAT DROVE THEM APART BUT LOVE IS LOVE AND IT ALWAYS SHOWS THROUGH

DEBORAH at 10:08PM on Apr 29th 2008

3. Being true to my name. She spent all that time acting like a little spoiled rat brat acting like she didn't want him and was better off without him. It's simply tacky. Honestly, he doesn't need her OR Tameka. I get the feeling that her pregnancy was a "chess move" toward the alter. Notice when he's with her, the smiling looks forced and she looks like " I got him.. and you can't do nothing about it."

Simple Truth at 10:42PM on Apr 29th 2008

4. Simple Truth,
You told just that.Who the hell does this little "monkey whore" think she is.?She goes and has a baby for Dallas Austin, then when TLC is in the tubes, she links up with Usher as his career is climbing up the ladder. Goldiggin little witch needs to go back to the trash can she came from

Can''tStand Chili at 10:52PM on Apr 29th 2008

5. Well, I wouldn't go that far. I'll just say it's like the old adage " You never miss your water until your well runs dry". OF course, you can always still love a person without being "in love" with them. Let's hope for the sake of taste, that's what she meant.
Although I have to admit,he doesn't really look that happy with Tameka. The smiling does seeem "forced" now. Still,, I think he is beyond done with Chilli ( which reminds me.. regarding the picture what's up with that "baby hair". Didn't that go out like in the 80's. What's that about?)

Lily at 11:14PM on Apr 29th 2008

6. "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it"?-Jer 17:9

Usher's marriage isn't all that legit..spiritually...for his current "wife" was married when they started dating....

ken at 6:27AM on Apr 30th 2008

7. 4 one y hate baby hair is beautiful, 4 2, usher has a good head on his shoulders,he is with who he wants to be with. Also, chilli that's fine if she still have love 4 him, but u know he is taken which she can't have never or he would of tryed to make it work, so move on and she is so pretty, so his lost. God Bless all of them, but the most important now is his new responsibility, his child, then his wife.

SexyBoo at 6:27AM on Apr 30th 2008

8. I do not think it is in her best interest to publicly acknowledge her love for Usher. These feelings must be private, I will not judge him or Tameka, as I have no idea what life is behind them after the lights go out. I wish them well and I hope that their marriage is successful

Ayodele Antoine at 6:54AM on Apr 30th 2008

9. WOW it discussed me to read some of the opinions with the name calling. I think that is just tacky tacky. It really doesn't matter that he's married with a kid, her feelings for him is just that, that doesn't mean she's showing disrespect to the woman.

sweetaries43 at 7:09AM on Apr 30th 2008

10. humph guess she not mad at him anymore, a couple of years ago she was all on the radio and magazine talking about how he cheated on her and how it's unacceptable. Now he's married she wanna disrespect his marriage and say something like this. Practice what you preach. I don't care how you slice and dice it you just don't do nothing like that. and she should know this since they had an ugly break up. I guess that a cue to let him know if he's ready to cheat she'll be waiting. lol Chilli you aint slick.

kee-kee at 7:37AM on Apr 30th 2008

11. There is nothing wrong with expressing your feelings for someone even if they are married. I still love my ex who is married and don't have a problem expressing it to anyone publicly I'm not going after him. Chili and usher have a past and real love doesn't fade so why pretend? admittance is a step of moving on. Denial hinders and can cause problems.

raeschel at 7:49AM on Apr 30th 2008

12. It may be hurtful, but Ms. Chilli should accept the FACT that Usher has moved on. He MARRIED "the other woman", not you! We as sisters should respect one another and not play these petty cat gsmes. Think about the kids. Unfortunately some day, they will read about this and will be very ashamed of you. Continue to have a friendship based on "agape love". If it is meant to be Chilli and Usher, then time will tell, but don't force it. Peach, NYC

Peach at 7:50AM on Apr 30th 2008

13. it's not wrong, but chilli needs to move on. simple as that.

g.s. at 7:53AM on Apr 30th 2008

14. and wow @ this poll I can't believe how many people said no Chilli wasn't wrong guess this is base on likablity. cause I don't know no women who wouldn't have a problem with their husband's ex going around telling everybody they know they still love him. Her motives def be questioned.

kee-kee at 7:58AM on Apr 30th 2008

15. It's normal to still have feelings for your ex if you truly loved them to begin with.
Usher dissapointed me by marrying that old ass gold digger and giving her his moms job.
Chili was just in a bad situation where he made his cheating public with his "Confessions" and its like she had to walk away because TLC is all about girl power, and being strong women, she'd be a hippocrit if she sat back and let him cheat and get away with it.
But you can tell that there's still love in the air between the both of them

i know it all at 8:25AM on Apr 30th 2008