It can suck to be a celebrity. Especially when folks decide to write a tell-all about your life and put your business on the streets. MC and actor, Mos Def, could attest to this. His ex-wife, Alana Wyatt, 29, self-published a tell-all called Breaking the Code of Silence, which is supposed to describe her whirlwind marriage to the artist, who she married last year.Here's a description of the book posted on Xlibris.com:
Breaking the Code of Silence chronicles the intense relationship and whirlwind marriage between a young woman and one of Hip-Hop's most beloved artists. An honest and open memoir, Wyatt tells her story of how her turbulent childhood, difficult teenage years and sometimes not-so-wise decisions aided in her development to become a devoted mother and a strong, independent woman. Controversial and straightforward Breaking the Code of Silence holds no punches as Wyatt reveals how her glamorous lifestyle -envied by many wasn't always so fabulous. Part biography, part cautionary tale, Wyatt tells her story to educate and inspire others to be independent and remain true to themselves.
Interested? Click here to read an excerpt.
I'm all for cautionary tales that may help others avoid mistakes, but what's up with all the tell-alls? First Karrine Steffans' Confessions of a Video Vixen then Carmen Bryant's It's No Secret. Who's next?

Felicia Pride is an author, speaker and welcomed voice of her generation. She's the founder of The BackList (www.thebacklist.net), an organization dedicated to using the power of words to uplift individuals and their communities. Felicia facilitates writing, publishing, and other creative workshops, curates events, and develops community initiatives. Shes a featured speaker at schools, universities, and events around the country, and has written for an array of publications. Her most recent book is The Message: 100 Life Lessons from Hip-Hop's Greatest Songs. Visit her online at www.feliciapride.com.


1. Give me a freaking break, I hate it when ex-spouses out their business in the streets. It is so juvenile...."you hurt me, so I am going to tell all of our business" that is so petty. No one is perfect, but if Mos Def chose to write a 'tell all' I bet she would have plenty to say. The man who said people will do anything for the almighty dollar was correct.
IPress at 1:45PM on Apr 23rd 2008