Q&A With Mo'Nique

By Susan L. Hornik
Courtesy of Match.com's Happen magazine

The star of 'Phat Girlz' reveals her advice on feeling sexy at any size -- and the surprising benefits of being big.

Q: In 'Phat Girlz,' you play an aspiring fashion designer who's looking for love. Why do you think plus-sized women have more trouble dating?

A: We have trouble with everything. We live in a society that says we should have problems if we're overweight. But we love food -- because it's good! When we go on a first date, we get a little too nervous to really eat, so we won't get the appetizer or dessert. We'll get an entrée because we're trying to impress the guy -- and then go home, mad as hell because we're still hungry! There are men who judge us and point fingers at us when we're getting food at the supermarket, getting popcorn at the movies -- society does a lot of damage. And that's really difficult.

Q: The film espouses that women can feel and dress sexy no matter their size. Do you agree?

A: Let me ask you: When you get your hair done and you have makeup on and are wearing pretty clothes (with lingerie underneath), how does it make you feel?! You feel damn good. I'm no different. I love playing dress up. When we look in the mirror and we like what we see, our swag is a little different. We walk confidently and that is very sexy!

Q: What's the craziest thing you've ever done for love?

Oooh! I can't tell you! I have done so much! I like to be a world traveler! And sometimes I like to go where it is ... thank God I have the money to do so. So I've been known to book a flight at five that leaves at eight and then come back the next day! You know, go and get it and leave! You don't have to spend too much time. But at least you have the next few hours!

Q: Tell me about your fiancé, Sidney Hicks. Was it love at first sight?

A: I've actually known him since I was fourteen. We've been best friends for as long as we've known each other. So it's different for us. Back then, it was like, ew! But now I think he is the sexiest man walking.

Contributing entertainment editor Susan L. Hornik is based in Los Angeles.

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